The hardest thing in the world...
Forcing yourself not to cry when you really want to.
Eradicating self pity.
Loving someone so much it hurts.
Pretending not to cry in a crowded place.
Feeling lonely.
Needing somoene to need you but being unable to communicate it appropriately.
Overcoming fear.
Dealing constructively with uncertainty.
Pretending everything's okay.
.... But you know... discovering the secret to most of the above are what builds character. And it's when you have hard things to do that you discover the source of your support and what the most important things are.
Life should be lived for the moment.
...
A lifetime of moments.
And all this in one evening!!!
Eradicating self pity.
Loving someone so much it hurts.
Pretending not to cry in a crowded place.
Feeling lonely.
Needing somoene to need you but being unable to communicate it appropriately.
Overcoming fear.
Dealing constructively with uncertainty.
Pretending everything's okay.
.... But you know... discovering the secret to most of the above are what builds character. And it's when you have hard things to do that you discover the source of your support and what the most important things are.
Life should be lived for the moment.
...
A lifetime of moments.
And all this in one evening!!!
posted by Princess Joya | 1:11 am
5 Comments:
very well written. And I still have to learn a few of those things :-|
It's a lifelong process! And often even a lifetime is not enough. Wish I had more willpower!
I think Iv do most of the things mentioned there and that too done in a span of a year!!
But the hardest is
Needing somoene to need you but being unable to communicate it appropriately.
I think there are more harder things too which is more difficult for me
Telling a sorry to someone youv hurt straight in the eye
Telling a thankyou to someone that just did a nice deed for u
Telling I love you everyday to those u love!!
Or just hugging and kissing ur folks in public (My bro has that huge problem)
Oh yea and accepting a genuine compliment given to u with a simple and warm
Thank you
Ps:How was the wedding Aru?
Sometimes i feel when you say i love you everyday it loses its value in the eyes of some. I dont have a problem with thank you and i love you in public, but yes, I think everyone hasd a problem with saying sorry because of the ego thing. It's also harder when the person you apologise to is not gracious about it. Takes away the motivation to be humble, ironic as it seems!
Engagement was great. That's also where this post came from!
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